How to Make a Woman Feel Secure in a Relationship

If you’ve been looking for tips on how to make a woman feel secure in a relationship, you’re at the right place.

But first, kudos on making that effort. It only goes to show how much you care for her and your relationship with her.

Now, is it okay, if for the rest of our conversation I address you as Mr. Caring? Because that’s what you seem to be.

All right, so without further ado, I am going to spill the beans as a woman myself, as to how you can help your woman feel like you’re the man she’s been looking for all her life.

#1. Know Thyself

The funny thing is, helping her feel better, safer, & happier with you, begins with you knowing who you are. I know you didn’t expect that, but that’s the truth.

Essentially, you’re helping her feel secure, by being secure within yourself as to who you are.

You can’t give her what you don’t have yourself. If you’d like to help her feel safe, start with yourself.

I am sure you’re wondering you already know who you are. But there’s a 99% chance you don’t know who you truly are.

All that you’ve ever known about you is an identity that has been given to you by the world. It is not something that has come from within your own knowing, or your own realisation.

Now, can you recall any moment in your relationship with your woman when she felt insecure? And you felt insecure in her insecurity? Do you know why? It’s because you don’t know who you are.

If you knew who you were, you’d not feel insecure in her insecurity, you’d be standing with her like a rock, who she could bank on, and who doesn’t go crying for approval the moment she feels unsafe in the relationship with you.

As a woman I can tell you, every woman on earth dreams of a man, who does not depend on her to know who he is. Who is aware of who he really is, and in this awareness comes with it, rock-solid security that every woman finds pleasant, feels safe in, and would love for such a man to be her man.

So Mr. Caring, I am sure you want to be that man. I am sure you want her to feel that you are the man she has been looking for all her life.

Then begin with yourself. Go on a journey of self-discovery. For this journey is full of treasures that you’ll not find anywhere else on earth.

#2. Accept Her As She Is

You have no idea how much self-doubt, fear, and vulnerable a woman feels.

Picture this, you’re a woman walking on the street, and every few blocks, a man or a group of men give you all kinds of looks, and you have to walk past that. A few blocks away, you might hear a catcall, a lame comment, or even a judgemental look. And you have to walk past all of that.

Women have been objectified in society, far more than men, and a result of this objectification is she feels unsafe in a world like this. More importantly, it is men to a great extent who have led to this experience.

And now, even though you’re not one of those men, even though you’re Mr. Caring, it is vital to seek to understand her world, and understand what she goes through.

She feels like the world is out there to just point out her flaws, or treat her like a commodity more than a human being, she feels unsafe, because she doesn’t feel like she has been accepted for who she is. Society has drawn an ideal picture of the “perfect woman” who does not exist in reality.

Women are chasing fiction, they’ve been lied to, you can be different. You can tell her you love her with her flaws, and that, she doesn’t have to be a perfect woman, just being a woman is about perfect for you.

So she can be her authentic self with you, and in doing so, enjoy your company.

#3. Hormones, Mood Swings, & Space

Become aware of the fact that she has menstrual cycles. There will be days where you cannot do much to help her feel better, when her hormones are on the high. But there’s one thing you can do best during that phase, and that is to give her space.

It shouldn’t really come as a surprise, but to help and support your woman, when she is going through her periods, is one of the amazing ways you can help her feel safe, loved, cared for in the relationship.

It’s funny how little men are educated on this subject when it comes to women. But I guess, it’s never too late to do the right thing?

I am sure you now know what it’s like to truly be a man. It’s not about those big muscles, it’s not about the expensive cars, but it’s about care.

When a woman can see that you truly care about her, she will also feel totally secure in that relationship with you.

And the fact that you read this article, goes to show, you’re one such man.

Now go, let her know, that you truly are Mr. Caring!

That’s about it. No rocket science, no complicated relationship advice, it all comes down to just one thing, be there for her.